December 09, 2006

possession


volleyball & basketball session with team India

wahlauweeyyyyyy, sepurnama lebih tiada coretan di sini, waduh waduh. khas untuk nadea yang dah suruh update, so here goes..

I'm supposed to be going to kuala kangsar at 4am but hey, i'm still here!!

Just thought of sharing, as sharing is caring is sharing, I had such a great Ramadhan & Syawal.
I should have done more religion-wise though (terawikh, tadarus, etc), sigh.
More than anything else, those months of blessings have taught me to be more grateful, of what I already have in life.

Highlights
1) Ramadhan : I burnt a hole in shashu's headgear, after a great berbuka puasa session with three of four Moffatess and partners, the friend in love and the ever composed, matured and somehow assuasive, lawyer friend.
2) Syawal : I get to see and catch up with 40 out of 48 cousins of mine. Enough said.

Back to my nonsensicle ramblings on life (macam bagus, haha).

Can you live without a life partner? Some just can't, especially if you've tasted the beauty of being in love and having someone all to yourself. There's always a price to be paid, to gain such happiness - some might say.
Yes, life without sharing is not a life afterall. Then again, it depends on you yourself, on how you want to share it, or whom you want to share it with.

Another downfall to this life parter thingy is that at certain level of the relationship, we tend to forget that the life partner is indeed, just another unique human being, with mind of its own.
He or she is not a possession that can be molded or instructed as we desire, to cater and bend with our own needs and interests.
She needs the space. He needs the time. We are not entering the couple-dom to become the ultimate twins. Its about loving the differences, and grow, and keeping each other happy.

Cheer up, and count your blessings.

"We make a living by what we get, but we make a life by what we give". Churchill.

Cheers!!


simply Red - Everybody hurts

When the day is long and the night, the night is yours alone.
When you’re sure you’ve had enough of this life, well hang on.
Don’t let yourself go, everybody cries
and everybody hurts sometimes.

Sometimes everything is wrong.
Now it’s time to sing along.
When your day is night alone, hold on, hold on.
If you feel like letting go, hold on.
When you think you’ve had too much of this life, well hang on.

Everybody hurts.
Take comfort in your friends.
Everybody hurts.
Don’t throw your hand. oh, no.
If you feel like you’re alone,
no, no, no, you are not alone.

If you’re on your own in this life, the days and nights are long.
When you think you’ve had too much of this life to hang on.
Well, everybody hurts sometimes,everybody cries.
Everybody hurts sometimes.
And everybody hurts sometimes.
So, hold on, hold on.

Everybody hurts. You are not alone.