night threader
You know a person is not that into you anymore when ;
1. He texted/messaged other girls stuff like " Hey, you looked nice in that white dress. Care to hang out?"
2. You were talking, he increased the TV volume, because he can't hear the TV over you.
3. You were watching your favorite TV show, he changed the channel and asked you to do something else (you would never do the same thing towards him, you'd rather asked nicely). When you complained, he throwed the remote control on the floor and went sulking (wtf?)
4. He didn't even asked for you to go see the doctor though you have been sick for more than 5 days.
5. He doesn't care that you already know how to swim or that you've just been promoted, like, whatever.
6. He looks down on your every needs, dreams, taste, preferences, and desires.
7. You are his favorite emotional punching bag. When he's angry with other people, it's you that gets it. When he had a bad day at work, you were the one he's angry with. Not in the sense of expressing and sharing his emotions with you, more like you being the outlet of his anger towards the world.
8. He doesn't talk nicely to you anymore. He treats others better than you.
9. He spends more hours on the phone, flirting with other girls, but only 10 minutes with you.
" Don't look for a partner with whom you have no
problem with, but one you are good at overcoming problems with.."
Then again, you can never be too careful nor careless when it comes to relationships.
If you have good feelings about it, proceed, rather than missed chances.
Just be sure to take great care of yourself, keep the relationship healthy, and never do things out of obligation, only if you really want to.
Kepada rakan genitkuh, selamat berjaya bersama si Daniel Wu, hehe.
On the other hand, I have this friend, I named her kelkatu.
Like a kelkatu, she loves being near the light source.
She can't seem to be able to get all the attention to herself, so she makes sure she's the next important thing after 'the light', by becoming 'the light's' best friend.
To her, the light is replaceable, a stepping stone, in a tapestry of her dream world.
More than often, 'the light' would be in delusion of having this great friend who cares, before she hops to another light, and another, and another, leaving 'the light' clueless, laden with wretchedness.
In general,
1)majority of people remember you by the mistakes you've done.
2)only the latest achievements/friends that really count. Past glories fade with time, old friends become less significant with the evolution of lifestyles.
My friends aren't like that, hence I am for a lifetime in debt.
Plus all the good people of the world like this guy who found my handphone and gave it to the lecturer.
Terima kasih.
I've been reading too much profound, stirring comic books lately (no zerr, it's not THE ARCHIES).
Plus my school books, which seemed rather dull in comparison.
Plus these three books ;
1. MALAYSIA and the club of DOOM : the collapse of the Islamic countries by Syed Akbar Ali
2. I am Muslim by Dina Zaman
3. Don't sweat the small stuff by Richard Carlson
Interesting writings, of mutual understanding of different lifestyles and beliefs.
Sape nak pinjam, selamat mencari di kutub khannahkuh(spelling?!!) yg serabut bak bulu-bulu rambutan kerinting.
This is one helluva lazy entry written by a much lazier lass who should know better than procrastinating on doing more important things like the research paper, and project, and the much needed sleep.
"Remember that EVERYTHING has God fingerprints on it.."
Ciao!
